How it all began...
One of the questions I have heard
the most is: "How
come you do oriental dance?" Well, that's a long story...
Normally I tell people a short version, because after telling it
about 200 times I can't hear it anymore.
But here I tell you all about it, the "multi
extended version with bonus track" of "MEISSOUN meets
oriental dance".
First encounters
As it happens with many love stories - you meet,
you loose each other. For me this was the case when we spent our
family vacation in Tunisia. By the time I was sweet sixteen and
didn't have an idea about the Orient. For me it was much more important
to see the sea for the first time in my life. I found it salty
and full of jelly fish...
By that time, Tunisia was much less touristically
developed. Which means that food was horrible. Most of the other
guests were French which whom I trained my skills at pétanque.
Well, you may ask, where does dance come in?
One evening there was this tourist folklore show.
A group showed some dances that were mostly about the daily village
life, stuff with baskets or so. Then it was announced that there
was going to be a Tunisian wedding. But a bride and groom were
needed. And somehow, whenever people need to pick somebody from
the audience, they take me. So I found myself a Tunisian bride
- with my brother as the groom... They took us to a room where
they dressed us. To pass their time, the dancers practices their
steps - and I could still slap myself for not asking them to show
me how they did it! As it was, I just watched them attentively.
Well and that was it for the time.
See two pictures, one in "normal" clothes,
one in wedding dresses.
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My brother, as dark as a Tunisian!
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No, I'm NOT afraid of snakes!
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But now!
5 years later I travelled to Side (South of Turkey)
with a friend of mine. The hotel offered various amusements during
the day like beach volleyball. I'm not really good with balls -
but I saw on the program, that there was a daily lesson of "belly
dance". And I made sure not to miss that one! The teacher
was a modern young woman with short hair, she seemed to be the
sport teacher of the local school. I turned out to be more or less
her only student. Other women came to the lessons, moved around
awkwardly and dissapeared. But I didn't miss a lesson!
Of course we also went on some of those excursions.
One of them was a boat trip on the near river. During one of the
stops a "danzös"
came aboard. One of the well known young women with tiny costumes
who shake their thing with a rather bored expression and collect
tips. When the guests were asked to dance with her, nothing could
stop me to show off my new dance movements. The Tunisian hip twists
that came from somewhere deep in my memory were looked at with
amusement by the Turks, but I had my applause - and the dancer
woke up from her routine and put more energy in her show.
A few days later my dance teacher took me by the
hand. I was to follow her to Club Robinson where she also taught
and with only few students as in my hotel. This was why I should
take part in the weekly guest show as advertisement for her lessons.
First we drove to her home where I waited quite a while together
with her young cousin who would also dance at the show.
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As the evening came we drove to Club Robinson.
Well, there are some parts of my show that make me cringe
today! But I promised to tell you EVERYTHING. Well, they
put a glass of raki in the front of my hip scarf and made
a guest try to drink out of it. Of course I had to move
my hips to make it difficult for him. My goodness! But
this was the organisers' idea of fun...
Besides this I had a thing for too short
dance skirts at the time - and a perm!
But I managed my hip sways quite well, didn't
I?
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The start of a wonderful friendship
After these two encounters I didn't want to part
from oriental dance. I came back from holiday and decided to keep
on learning. First I bought two CDs to practice - the wrong ones
of course, that I never use anymore. But I found a good teacher,
Viola Layali Römer, with whom I took classes for the next
5 years.
As you can see in the gallery,
my skirts and hair have become longer since then. But I'm still
not a specialist in Tunisian dance...
Well, that's enough for this time, OK?
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